December 2011
83 posts
Anonymous asked: is your submissions box working again? cause i sent something in a while ago and it never got posted and then i saw you say you say it wasnt working but if it is now i would really love for my story to be posted :/
Anonymous asked: Hi i got raped when i was 7 by my uncle and he said if i ever told anyone he would kill me and my family ever since then i've been self harming and not eating right at people at school joke about rape and make fun of it and i get so nervous when that happens i get bullied a lot too and i keep having flash backs of what happened and i keep thinking i see him everywhere so i'm scared to...
Anonymous asked: 'Do you know what causes rape? Rapists. Not victims.' < This was on another Tumblr page that I was shown by my friend and I thought that it tied it well with what this whole Tumblr is about.
Thanks to Anonymous for sharing the experience.
I.. um.. Ive been around sexual things a lot in my younger life. My mom would.. Hook up with guys. She and my father divorced when I was young young. And.. Me and my brothers would move back and forth from my mom and dad. My moms.. friend, she had a daughter. I was about 6 or 7 year old. This girl was my age and my mom wanted me to befriends her. So, You know, I tried. One day she.. started...
Anonymous asked: I'm 14 and i got raped when i was 7 by my uncle i remember it sometimes but not all the time and i self harm and suicidal cause he has ruined my life he said if i told anyone he would kill me im scared to go any where on my own and i've just recently told my family and i'm scared he's found out and he will kill them cause i see him everywhere
good-equalsbad asked: Hello! First off, I'd like to say thank you for creating this blog. It's made me realize that society hasn't taught people not to rape, but only to avoid it. Second off, when I was 13 [I'm sixteen now], my childhood best friend forced me to give him oral sex. I don't know if this counts as rape, but it's haunted me ever since. I don't feel I'm worthy of love...
scarlet-field asked: I am just unbelievably upset how can psychologist event think about it that victim caused it! It´s just...I would make him to return diploma in instant.
Anonymous asked: Um Hi i got raped when i was 7 by my uncle and he said if i told anyone he would kill me and my family i had no idea he did it to me until the school taught us about it i only then realised what happened to me and i keep having flashbacks about it and i'm scared all the time i self harm and i've attempted 5 times cause he was everywhere i was and people at my school keep joking about...
Anonymous asked: When I was 8 my Dad used to rape me over and over and after my brother turned 13 my Dad taught him to involved too. when I turned 11 after years and years of abuse i managed to get away from my father he chased me and i hit him with a rock and pushed him into our pool. my brother saw what happend and he treated me very badly afterwards. I finally told my mother, and for 5 years i was...
Anonymous asked: My psychologist said it was inevitable that I was raped, because "I'm too sexual for my own good" I was wearing a tshirt and jeans. I didn't talk to him.
Anonymous asked: I was dating a boy, we are both in the Army, when I tried breaking up with him he raped me. I didn't scream, I didn't cry - I never reported him. We both continue to serve and who knows how many other girls he has hurt and raped. I feel sick that I never reported him, but I know since I had consented before he would've never been prosecuted - it would've only ruined my...
Anonymous asked: I'm 18 years old, last year i was walking from my friends house down the road back to my house. It wasn't that far so i thought it would be fine even though it was dark. Just over half way home 3 guys dragged me down some stairs and under a bridge that was over a canal. All 3 of them took it in turns to rape me while the other two held me down. I couldn't fight, i couldn't move...
http://rapeculturemakesmeangry.tumblr.com/post/14447617187/thank-you-to-ourmissionisinfinity-for-your-submission
please kill yourself? that’s very rude of you to say.
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Anonymous asked: Once I heard a stupid joke that "rape is a pleasure by surprise". Thinking that way, a punch in a man's crotch should be called "surprise handjob".
Anonymous asked: A boy i dated (keep in mind that i was 13 and he was 14) was the sweetest thing ever. I loved him.. but then he offered to do things. He got condoms and we did it ocassionly. Eventually he was forcing me to do it even tho i sed no. He is 6 foot 5 and im 4 foot 11 so its kinda hard to fight back. During it i would fight back and scratch him, but he thought it was jus me being kinky. Sometimes he...
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Anonymous asked: Is there a word limit on submissions? I tried submitting my story again about a week ago (I saved it this time), and I haven't seen it on the feed. I'm guessing it didn't go through again?
Anonymous asked: I don't like it when people say that "men can't get raped." Guys get raped, too. The difference is that no one takes them seriously, so it isn't reported. I feel bad for both men and women who are sexually abused and I want to help them.
suckmydixon asked: My mother was a survivor. She is so strong and I cannot thank her enough for moving on and falling in love with such a sweet man like my dad, going to college and pressing on. She once said "I don't let it affect me because those men have to look in their mirrors everyday and say 'I raped a young girl.'" I love her so much. She's my hero.
syd-squid asked: Anon, running away isn't weak. If distance is what you need to heal, you shouldn't feel bad at all for taking it. Your strength is that you know what's best for you and you are capable of taking care of yourself.
thefrill asked: Do you ever get any negative comments about this blog or innapropriate sexual comments regarding this blog?
thingswefear asked: I can't stand it when people say "They asked to get raped." Nobody asks to get raped. Foreal. People are just so ignorant and daft. I was sexually assaulted 2 years ago by 3 boys and I came home with bruises and no clothes. I explained the situation to my mom and she laughed and said "You probably asked someone to do this to you for attention." I also hate when people make...
blackwomanthoughts asked: I never been raped or molested before, but I love that you have created this blog for these who have. I'm a female and every time I hear the word "rape", I cringe. Society has told women and even men to avoid rape, but never yelled and screamed "DO NOT RAPE". This world is a sad place. Most want to end poverty but if I could, I would stop rapes, human trafficking and...
Anonymous asked: i was 4-5, he was one of my parents friends son. he molested me. 10 years on this is the first time i have told anyone. i still remember the room. im afraid to lose my virginity. or be touched by people. i feel sick just thinking about it.
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Anonymous asked: Does it make you angry when you see pictures of girls half naked? or like vs angels ?
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ann-eke asked: I have 2 brothers and when i was 5-7 they molested me over and over they said dont tell mum and said that if i did i would get into trouble so i didnt. when i was 7-10 my neighbour who was in his late teens sexually assaulted me and ended up taking my virginity and i never told mum. He moved away and i just pushed it to the back of my head i am 16 now and 2 months ago i saw him he was at the...
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Thank you to ourmissionisinfinity for your...
I’m 14. I’m a high school freshmen. In june this year, my boyfriend raped me. We’d only been going out for not even a month at that time. He seemed like the sweetest, most gentle person. Looking back, the thought of that disgusts me. But anyways, I had made it VERY clear to him that I was completely uninterested in sex of any kind. He took it very acceptingly and said he was fine...
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Thank you to puzzled-panther for your submission...
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lumosthesky asked: to the anon that said these stories make her feel weak, idk about every one else but i was afraid of any physical contact or even leaving my house for so long. i pushed every one away and it messed me up too! don't ever feel as though what you went through is any less scarring than what any one else did. don't ever feel weak. you're a survivor, you're strong.
Thank you to surviving2years for your submission.
This is what I wore when I was volunteering at a book store, I was asking people if they needed any help. This 60 year old man was being very inappropriate and had totally creeped me out with his lecherous smile so I told my supervisor and my supervisor had a talk about him not making dirty remarks to 16 year old girls. The 60 year old man then said that it was my fault because I had made a move...
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Anonymous asked: One of my friends told me that she's a rape victim. She says that her current bf has been such a support for her, in helping her feel 'normal' again. I was glad that she finally trusted me to tell me about it, and I want to be a support for her recovery too. What advice do you have for me? I don't want to make her feel as if I'm pitying her. She hasn't broached the...
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Anonymous asked: I feel weak. I read all these submissions and how strong these other victims are and I feel weak. I was assaulted it wasn't that bad just a kiss and hands under my shirt but I was so messed up from it that it ruined my senior year and I had to move to a different state. I ran away. I was weak.
Anonymous asked: I've never been raped or molested or anything of the sort, but I just wanted to say that the people who survive are... Amazing, if that's a good enough word. Every single one of them are amazing for their strength to survive. It's a shame there's so many people that this happens to, though and it's a shame what some peoples' reactions are as well as society's...
everybodies-addiction asked: all of you survivors inspire me. everyday.
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The Essence of My Soul: Oh what fun it is to walk... →
rosalarian:
A couple nights ago, while walking two long city blocks to my car after dark on a fairly well-traveled but still less savory street, some shenanigans happened.
I was initially walking behind two men who stood shoulder to shoulder. They were walking slow and I had no room to pass…
This is a really good point.
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Thank you to Anonymous for the story.
I was at a party with a coworker of mine, who I brought along because he could buy us some alcohol. I told him stories about my boyfriend of 3 years. We took shots together. After the party, we were so drunk that neither of us could drive home. I asked him to walk with me, to sober up. Then, he pulled me into the woods and proceeded to rape me, even though I begged him to stop. I had to see this...
Anonymous asked: I started going out with a guy who was 17 when I was 15. I wasnt the perfect girl he wanted, so he punished me. He forced me into sex four months into our relationship and that continued for four months. After my 16th birthday, it stopped. I thought he had changed, I thought i'd finally become someone he wanted. On our year anniversary he raped me worse than I could ever imagine. I broke up...
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Thank you to Anon for your story.
My rapist (four years later) is having a daughter,
and there’s nothing i can do. and i feel like shit. if i had reported it when there was evidence, he may not be having a baby. and now this little girl will grow up, being raised by a horrible man. his father sexually abused him as a child, who’s to say he won’t do that to his children? is there anything i can do to save this innocent child?
Anonymous asked: rape is the worst thing ever. sex is something special. and its even worse if that person physically took your virginity. but i don't think they can take it mentally. i always think that they took it physically but not mentally. because that's mine. and they can only take it if i let them. had a hard time trusting guys afterward but now i have an amazing boyfriend of two years and i...
Anonymous asked: I tried to submit my story a little while ago (it was long)... But then as soon as I hit "submit" I remembered someone saying that your submissions weren't working. I didn't save it anywhere, and it took me a lot of time and energy to write. I don't have the energy to try again now, but hopefully one day I'll be willing and strong enough to share what happened to...
swirlandswing asked: My heart goes out to all survivors. You are strong<3
Anonymous asked: I was in a show over the summer and my love interest in the show was 22. I'm 15. We had to kiss a lot (he was my first btw) and he always seemed really off to me....he texted me and told me how beautiful I was and asked me on dates. Then one day he took me into another room and molested me. I tried to stop him, but he didn't. Now, even though he's in college, Im afraid of...
Anonymous asked: I was raped when I was 14 and no one did anything about it.
Anonymous asked: i have always considered myself as my lil sis' protector. Bt one time i failed her. She was talking to this guy 2 years older, and I thought he was nice, so I didn't butt in. 1 day they stopped talking & my sister just wasn't herself. I thought it was a heartache so i was there to help her. A month later she told me he tried rapping her, he got on top her sloppy kisses &...
meow-meow-mew asked: I love this blog, how it helps people overcome. It is one of the few places left on tumblr where then is no hate, no judging. Anybody who reads this can send me a message and i will follow them. Stay strong <3
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Thanks to takeawaymybreath for the experience and...
i’m not so sure how to start this…
uhh, basically, my experience happened sometime mid-late january. i can’t quite remember. my ex boyfriend had just shattered my heart into about sixty billion pieces. a little background, i’ve overcome a lot of sexual assault already. my step and biological brothers took turns assaulting me from ages 7-13. anything prior to that i...
Anonymous asked: Thank you for creating this tumblr. I read the experiences and i know i'm not alone. so thank you x
Anonymous asked: I found your response to the girl who talked about her friend's uncle highly insensitive and invalidating. If he knows the girls are in the house, he shouldn't be doing that in a room they could come into in the first place (doesn't sound like he was in the privacy of his bedroom). The point is they're UNCOMFORTABLE, & if he knows they're there... What are your...
Anonymous asked: okay here it goes..
My bestfriends uncle is a pedophile and hes even molested my bestfriend and
a couple of months ago i saw my friends uncle masturbating and i thought i was mistaken when i suspected it so i shrugged it off. But recently today i saw him actually doing it and it made me feel uncomfortable since my friend and i were in the other room. I feel like her uncle knows that...
My bestfriends uncle is a pedophile and hes even molested my bestfriend and
a couple of months ago i saw my friends uncle masturbating and i thought i was mistaken when i suspected it so i shrugged it off. But recently today i saw him actually doing it and it made me feel uncomfortable since my friend and i were in the other room. I feel like her uncle knows that...
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“The truth is that rape victims look like ordinary women, and men. The truth is...”
– Day 2. The image of rape | 16 Impacts of Sexual Assault (via heavenearthandhoratio)